Aiden Lewis (
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What... the fuck?
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I don't know. Have you pissed him off lately? Pat gets this Nurse Look happening when I piss him off sometimes. I'm sure he contemplates smacking me some days.
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We had a fight painting the bar the other day. Pretty sure I pissed him off then. I accused him of being Mr Grumpy Pants. He's just... he doesn't talk about the wedding, you know? Makes me wonder sometimes...
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A wedding's a big thing. You're standing up and saying you're going to be with someone for the rest of your life. Maybe he's just trying to get his head around it all.
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I guess. I don't know. Anyway, I haven't talk to him about it for a while. I'd rather just be getting on with Luke the days before our wedding, you know? I'm still really happy for you and Pat, A.
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Well, to play the Devil's Advocate here, and totally coming off as a hypocrite consiering my own situation, but it was a quick transition for you guys from engagement to marriage. Maybe he's just trying to catch up with everything in his head.
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I would have given him more time, but Riley wants to start the IVF with Evie, and we wanted a twin wedding... I wanted more time too, but this is how I need to do it. We need to do it. He was the one that said we should... I don't know. I just... I don't know.
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Kind of sounds like Luke's maybe drawing the short straw in the whole bride, groom, twin wedding consideration stakes. If you need it, he'll do it for you no questions asked, but it's still a lot to absorb in a short time. It's stressful. Even the most placid person can get snappy when they're stressed.
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I didn't make him! I asked, and he agreed. I wouldn't have... I mean, I know I can be pushy, but he could have said no. I want him happy, that's all. I didn't mean for him to get the short straw.
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I didn't say that you did. I'm just trying to help you see why he might be acting strangely. I'm also saying that it's not necessarily a bad thing if he is acting odd on account of the fact getting married is a huge thing.
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Yeah, I guess. Maybe me trying to read so much into it is me acting weird because of the marriage thing. I still can't believe I'm at this point, you know?
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Yeah, I do know. Trust me, I know really well. But I also knew really well that I wanted it by the time came. To think about it now, though, I might well have freaked out as a big wedding drew near if we went that route.
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I think big weddings have that effect, but this isn't really a big wedding. Pat's just making sure it doesn't look like us in garbage bags with a keg.
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It's still an anticipated wedding and it's a twin wedding. It's a big wedding by default. It doesn't have to be splashy and flashy to be big.
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So it's a meaning thing, and not a size thing. Got it.
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Tab, take it from someone who's learnt the lesson recently. Getting married is one of the biggest things you'll do in your life. Ever.
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Well, I did manage to work out it would be kinda significant.
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There's no 'kinda' about it.
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Do you think I'll make a good wife?
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Why wouldn't you? It's not about being a wife, it's about being an equal half.
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I think we are equal halves... except with the twin thing. But he gets that.
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Then just chill. If it feels right, it is right. Just don't begrudge him some weird behaviour. It's just nerves.